How Romance Is Killing Marriage

I came across an interesting article talking about how romantic comedies are hurting relationships and I thought "WOW! Somebody gets it!" Somebody gets it!  Romance isn't portrayed the way it was in the old days where you saw someone meet......stay involved in one another's lives over a span of time......marry and begin building a family...Nowadays, what we call romance is more fixated on the "comedy" of two people simply trying to now have...

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Write drunk. Edit sober.

Before you become righteously horrified, read this article. People ask me from time to time how I produce so much material whether blogs, articles, courses and webinars, etc. I've got two quotes I learned long ago that press me forward."Write drunk. Edit sober." - Ernest Hemingway“There is no such thing as good writing, only good rewriting.” – Louis D. Brandeis.Am I suggesting you should go get a glass of wine, get sloshed and "Voilà!" Instant...

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Systems = Success!

What is the one thing that takes you from making money to getting rich? Systems. The more you can automate and duplicate what you do without having to inject YOU into creating the finished product, the more money you're going to make.  Working with systems vs working without them is like the difference between apples and oranges - totally different deal.Don't let the thought of creating systems intimidate you, however.  It can be done...

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Dissatisfied? Good!

Why do you need a coach? Why do you need to change your environment? Here's a reason: You need to be around people whose dreams for you are bigger than your dreams are for yourself. One thing a coach does is increase your dissatisfaction with status quo. And that is the only proven impetus to change - dissatisfaction. If you aren't dissatisfied (weight, sexual fulfillment, wealth and relationships are the main concerns for most people), you...

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Is television killing your future?

How much television are you watching?  Americans are spending an average of thirty-four hours a week watching television.  Hours and hours of television watching is costing you money.  Bet on it!  Saw this from Pamela Lawhorne and thought it was profound: If you watch more TV than you read books... it's costing you money... If you gossip more than you attend webinars or seminars.. it's costing you money... If you complain more...

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Why is dating so hard?

Well. This is a trick question. For me, it really isn't. However, I know a lot of people (men and women) who say they NEVER date. This is completely beyond me. Women are saying (claiming?) they aren't asked out and men are saying (claiming?) they are not asking. I really don't get it. This is a mystery to me.A friend of mine, Betty-Anne Marie White of Woman, Reveal Yourself, offered some thoughts as to why is so... Here are her thoughts regarding...

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4 Ways to Make Real Changes in Your Behavior

Lose weight?  Have better sex?  Sleep better?  Live longer?  Enjoy life more?  Wait!  You had me at better sex! I'm reading Timothy Ferriss' The 4-Hour Body right now and it's blowing my mind!  I truly think (along with The 4-Hour Workweek) I've stumbled upon something good here.  I like the way this guy thinks.  I think you will, too, because he gets results and shows other people how to do the same....

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