How The Best Make It Look Easy

"If I had eight hours to chop down a tree, I'd spend six hours sharpening my ax." - Abraham Lincoln, Kind of a Memorable Guy People say they best make it look easy. That's true! But that's because they're often up late getting sharper while others sleep. It's hard work making things look easy!  I'm working on myself this week by studying Christian Coaching by Gary R. Collins, PhD and Start Where You Are by Chris Gardner of The Pursuit of...

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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

"You miss one hundred percent of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretzky I love that quote! It reminds me of my favorite scene from "Good Will Hunting" by far! Even your closest friends will get tired of hearing you talk about the shots you COULD make if you ever get in the game. More important the quote and Ben Affleck are speaking directly to me where I am today.  I'm a big talker.  Always have been.  Also, I've got a few...

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What If Nobody Cares About What I Have To Say?

This has to be every influencer's fear. You talk but nobody's listening. You've got wisdom to share but nobody cares.  You KNOW you've got the goods but can't even seem to give them away!!The question for some of you is how do you break through this barrier in a way that makes a difference and DOESN'T make you feel like you're pouting, stomping around or crying out for attention?  It's very simple really: transparency.(Maybe I should...

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The Expert Excellence Webinar © - Position Yourself, Promote and Profit as an Expert

Start off by listening to this brief overview below!!!I don't sell at these workshops... I share, I teach and I transform.  In an industry where most seminar leaders spend all day selling you something rather than training you with world-class content, I use a different approach.  I don't just tell you, I show you and then I take you there!  Starting immediately from the moment we begin. I give comprehensive concepts, frameworks and...

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"I'm responsible for what I say, not what you hear!"

Let me let you into my head a little bit. When I start to see a statement become more and more popular, it makes me wonder "What would God say to that?" and I start searching it out. I saw this again this morning and it made me wonder: "If it truly matters that they get the message, and I've got the message they need to hear, do I then have any responsibilities towards that?" "I'm responsible for what I say, not what you hear!" Well... slow...

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3 Things He's Looking for from Her

Once a man is attracted to you, I believe he begins to filter every conversation, observation and interaction with you through three key questions:Does she NEED me? Can I make her happy? Could I trust her with EVERYTHING I am? Some say men don't commit these days but that's obviously not true. Men and women still get married.  Good men and women get married. Some marry and some don't and I believe I've figured out how you can...

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What Can You Give? What Can You Add?

If you can't think of ten ways you aren't making your partner happy, you're missing it and you're selfish.  Period!  Short blog today.  I love and respect all of my readers here so this just a Public Service Announcement.  A reminder, if you will.  I've got no complaints today.  I'd simply like to encourage you not to look at a relationship for only how you can be made happy, but how you can contribute to a happy environment....

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