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8/17/13

Who Are You? Call YOU Forth!


I feel like most people have an "inner greatness" just straining to come through to the surface.  I believe that with all my heart and mind.  I think you know it about yourself, too! I feel like I have a simple mission: to remind people of their potential for a greater life and then show them ways to get there.  That's pretty much it and I love it!

So my title to this blog is a little bit of a tease.  I think you've already got an image in your mind of you operating at your highest level! You just need to know how to get there.

Here's a tool you can use.  Like I told you on my Facebook page, I internalized a lot of negative images of myself over the last several years.  Life and some setbacks had robbed me of my confidence and even destroyed my positive self-definitions.  And while I've come a long way, I still work DAILY on reprogramming my mind. I know first hand the pain of limiting self-beliefs and how they can stagnate your life and stifle your purpose. I used to pray every day "Lord, rewire my brain! Help me to think differently!" because I knew I was operating on a level smaller than for what I was designed!

But I know I'm not alone. That's why I am so aggressive about topics such as taking action, visualization and speaking life! You don't have to be limited anymore! You can have God's best for your life and it's going to begin with a step that sometimes feels silly or unnecessary.  You've got to speak it!

You gotta believe it and speak it... it starts there. Death and life are in the power of the tongue.  Everything that you see in yourself, start calling it out!

I am successful!
I am in great shape!
I accomplish my goals!
I am a finisher!
I am a college graduate!

Whatever you see, start speaking it as specifically as you can.  Your words shape your life.  As you learn to speak life over yourself and your future, your actions will begin to line up with your new thoughts and you'll see the world itself begin to open up new pathways for you. Watch what I say! 










Mark Anthony McCray helps people live on PURPOSE, achieve higher PERFORMANCE and experience true PROSPERITY. Be sure to subscribe to this blog so you don't miss a thing and forward this to a friend if you found it helpful. All material © Copyright, Mark Anthony McCray unless otherwise noted!

He can be reached in the following ways:

Mark@LiveBIGDieEmpty.com
Phone: 281-846-5720
Twitter: @LiveBIGDieEmpty
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/LiveBIGDieEmpty
LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/markanthonymccray/
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Click HERE for information on Mark as a speaker or presenter and HERE to learn about coaching programs to help you realize your potential and live more prosperously!

8/11/13

Introducing the Live BIG Die Empty: Relationship Readiness Group


Join Mark Anthony McCray of Live BIG Die Empty as we journey along the path to "Relationship Readiness: Preparing to Have Happy, Healthy & Whole Relationships" with a particular focus on how to prepare yourself for love and healthy relationships!

In our time together we work through various facets of preparing for meaningful relationships and marriage beginning with setting Godly relationship goals and much more.  Additionally, we will use a private Facebook group to share materials, engage in candid discussion and post announcements for each of the personal coaching calls.

All of the most successful people (in every field) have coaches. Do you? If not, you are not doing everything you can do to achieve your dreams, visions and purposes. Period. It only takes one right idea at the right time to change your entire life. If you could learn new exercises, techniques and strategies for planning your life, building a business, increasing your income and understanding your purpose, would it be worth the price of a meal? I ask clients to read this before we begin working together to allow you to better understand my approach to coaching and to help you get the most out of the experience.

What is group coaching?

Group coaching is a great way to experience professional Life Coaching at a fraction of the cost of individual coaching, through a group setting. Individuals can benefit through sharing, learning from the successes and challenges of other members, forming relationships and experiencing synergy from the group. Group coaching works by utilizing the power of one-on-one coaching with group support. Learn how you can overcome your challenges which will increase your ability to reach your goals, through the power of connecting with a professional coach and other group members who will lend support and ideas in a non-judgmental, safe and confidential environment. Coaching is not counseling or therapy or consulting. A coach leads the sessions and partners with group members so that they discover their own answers and develop their own techniques for learning the best way to achieve what they want and what they are each capable of as individuals. Because group coaching is based on creating synergy from the group and forming trusting relationships, a commitment to the program and assignments is required. Participation by all members is vital for group coaching to be effective and to provide synergy to all involved. Participants share their challenges, members provide feedback, brainstorm possibilities and the coach helps move everyone forward by helping to form action plans and provide accountability to all. Group Coaching May Be For You If:
  • You are truly committed to making a shift from settling on an ordinary life and moving into greater opportunities of fulfillment....
  • You have the drive and the desire to make a change for the better in your life right now....
  • You are open to explore your awareness of yourself and be willing and committed to stretch out of your comfort zone along with other supportive group members...
ENROLLMENT IN THIS GROUP IS NOW CLOSED.  FOR INFORMATION ON OTHER COACHING PROGRAMS, PLEASE VISIT THE LIVE BIG! DIE EMPTY. BLOG.



Mark Anthony McCray helps people live on PURPOSE, achieve higher PERFORMANCE and experience true PROSPERITY. Be sure to subscribe to this blog so you don't miss a thing and forward this to a friend if you found it helpful. All material © Copyright, Mark Anthony McCray unless otherwise noted! He can be reached in the following ways: Mark@LiveBIGDieEmpty.comPhone: 281-846-5720 Twitter: @LiveBIGDieEmptyFacebook: http://www.facebook.com/LiveBIGDieEmptyLinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/markanthonymccray/Google+: https://plus.google.com/u/0/103149858138414160703/postsYouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/markanthonymccrayPinterest: http://pinterest.com/markmccray/ Click HERE for information on Mark as a speaker or presenter and HERE to learn about coaching programs to help you realize your potential and live more prosperously!

8/10/13

Introducing the Live Big Die Empty: Peak Personal Performance Group

Can I share with you the single BEST thing I ever did regarding my dreams and goals? I WROTE them and got 100% CLARITY on what was important to me... what was truly in my heart. Since doing that my life has been ON FIRE so much it's scary to me sometimes. EVERY single day God is honoring my clarity by moving at least one area forward in ways I could never have predicted or even asked. I want to help you experience the same movement!


If YOU need this kind of help and more when it comes to getting clarity and getting UNSTUCK, you need to join this group by clicking the image below! Only $49.99 per month to receive group coaching from Mark Anthony McCray of Live BIG Die Empty Training & Development. This is an unbelievable chance to work closely with a coach and peers who can help you supercharge your progress in life, ministry, personal development and more!

I conduct two private coaching calls per month.  They are each recorded and available for download after the call has been completed.  Attendance isn't mandatory.  I know you will have meetings that you will miss.  However, if you are on the call you will be able to interact and ask questions and share your feedback with me and the entire group.  I've found that it works out well for everyone and accelerates growth.

One of the great things you get by being a part of the group is accountability and that truly is a key to greater success.


I am limiting participation to keep the group intimate and focused. Claim your spot today!  Our group coaching call is posted inside the group.




Two one-hour coaching calls every month 
Monthly Subscription Fee: $49.99 
(Must Sign up for Auto-Pay)
No obligation.  You can cancel at any time

Previous assignments are already posted in the Private Group area so you can get started right away.  You will be directed to the private group area to get instructions for joining the teleclass.  Join me and let's get started moving you forward!

All of the most successful people (in every field) have coaches. Do you?

If not, you are not doing everything you can do to achieve your dreams, visions and purposes. Period. It only takes one right idea at the right time to change your entire life. If you could learn new exercises, techniques and strategies for planning your life, building a business, increasing your income and understanding your purpose, would it be worth the price of a meal?

I ask clients to read this before we begin working together to allow you to better understand my approach to coaching and to help you get the most out of the experience.



What is group coaching?

Group coaching is a great way to experience professional Life Coaching at a fraction of the cost of individual coaching, through a group setting. Individuals can benefit through sharing, learning from the successes and challenges of other members, forming relationships and experiencing synergy from the group.


Group coaching works by utilizing the power of one-on-one coaching with group support. Learn how you can overcome your challenges which will increase your ability to reach your goals, through the power of connecting with a professional coach and other group members who will lend support and ideas in a non-judgmental, safe and confidential environment.


Coaching is not counseling or therapy or consulting. A coach leads the sessions and partners with group members so that they discover their own answers and develop their own techniques for learning the best way to achieve what they want and what they are each capable of as individuals. Because group coaching is based on creating synergy from the group and forming trusting relationships, a commitment to the program and assignments is required. Participation by all members is vital for group coaching to be effective and to provide synergy to all involved. Participants share their challenges, members provide feedback, brainstorm possibilities and the coach helps move everyone forward by helping to form action plans and provide accountability to all.

Group Coaching May Be For You If:

  • You are truly committed to making a shift from settling on an ordinary life and moving into greater opportunities of fulfillment....
  • You have the drive and the desire to make a change for the better in your life right now....
  • You are open to explore your awareness of yourself and be willing and committed to stretch out of your comfort zone along with other supportive group members...

I'm launching the Peak Personal Performance Group NOW but membership is limited.

When some people hear people like me talk about discovering their purpose and walking in it, all they get is FRUSTRATED!! They become frustrated because they either don't think they have a special, God-given purpose or they simply don't know how to discover it. I can relate to that. I've been there.

I want you to join me in this group because I want to work with you until you are able to answer for yourself...

  • What is my purpose?
  • How can I know it for sure?
  • I know my purpose, but I feel stuck. What can I do?
  • Where can I find a mentor?
  • How can I raise the money?
  • How can I earn more money?
  • I'm not sure I'm meant for anything more. Am I?

These are all great questions! I address these and more and help you move your life to the next level of productivity and fulfillment.  Use the PayPal link below to join:





Two one-hour coaching calls every month
Monthly Subscription Fee: $49.99
(Must Sign up for Auto-Pay)
No obligation.  You can cancel at any time









Mark Anthony McCray helps people live on PURPOSE, achieve higher PERFORMANCE and experience true PROSPERITY. Be sure to subscribe to this blog so you don't miss a thing and forward this to a friend if you found it helpful. All material © Copyright, Mark Anthony McCray unless otherwise noted!

He can be reached in the following ways:

Mark@LiveBIGDieEmpty.com
Phone: 281-846-5720
Twitter: @LiveBIGDieEmpty
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/LiveBIGDieEmpty
LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/markanthonymccray/
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Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/markmccray/

Click HERE for information on Mark as a speaker or presenter and HERE to learn about coaching programs to help you realize your potential and live more prosperously!

8/7/13

"10 Winning Strategies for Improving Your Credit & Personal Finances"

After selling a couple hundred of this ‪credit score‬ repair guide to nothing but good reviews, I've finally decided to offering to my blog readers.  Truthfully, I put it out there at first to start establishing myself as a trusted resource for credit score restoration and it's been awesome!

"Hey, Mark! Just wanted you to know that we just closed on our new home!" - R.A., Houston, TX

(...helped him restore his credit and his family is now in their own home for the first time!)








Somebody needs this help!  You can't live a #BIG life when your financial life is in disarray!

I'm a teacher by nature (not boring at all though) and if you've got questions about improving both your credit scores and your overall financial situation YOU NEED TO INVEST IN THIS RESOURCE! You'll get this plus bonus material delivered to your email box for just dollars and it's worth hundreds more than that. I just want to help.

"10 Winning Strategies for Improving Your Credit & Personal Finances" is an educational program that I put together to help you get answers to your questions about how you can improve your credit, borrow money at lower rates, stop getting turned down for purchases and improve your overall financial situation dramatically!

It's regularly $27 but you can get it now for only $17 and trust me... worth every nickel! It's packed with info and every order gets a couple of bonus guides on budgeting and improving your credit throw in!

Use this link for the special offer price:






Get your copy RIGHT NOW by instant download!!! You will also get a FREE guide to creating a budget for your home, a FREE guide to steps you can take to restore your credit score yourself and a FREE guide to avoiding financing mistakes in your small business. 

The bottom line is this: if you are looking for help winning the ‪#‎credit‬ score game, here's THE resource you need right now! See what others have already learned! God bless!!

Need one-on-one help?  E-mail for program information at mark@thecreditscorecoach.com and get an answer within one business day!  And stay connected on Facebook for more cool, helpful personal finance stuff!








Mark Anthony McCray helps people live on PURPOSE, achieve higher PERFORMANCE and experience true PROSPERITY. Be sure to subscribe to this blog so you don't miss a thing and forward this to a friend if you found it helpful. All material © Copyright, Mark Anthony McCray unless otherwise noted!

He can be reached in the following ways:

Mark@LiveBIGDieEmpty.com
Phone: 281-846-5720
Twitter: @LiveBIGDieEmpty
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/LiveBIGDieEmpty
LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/markanthonymccray/
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Click HERE for information on Mark as a speaker or presenter and HERE to learn about coaching programs to help you realize your potential and live more prosperously!

7/23/13

How The Best Make It Look Easy


"If I had eight hours to chop down a tree, I'd spend six hours sharpening my ax." - Abraham Lincoln, Kind of a Memorable Guy

People say they best make it look easy. That's true! But that's because they're often up late getting sharper while others sleep. It's hard work making things look easy!  I'm working on myself this week by studying Christian Coaching by Gary R. Collins, PhD and Start Where You Are by Chris Gardner of The Pursuit of Happyness fame.  Both in terms of moving parts of my vision forward and in helping others do the same, I've grown a lot already.  Also, reading excites me.  It focuses me.  It motivates me to achieve more and whenever I'm in the middle of a good book I wonder why I don't read more! (I read a lot.)


For you, remember to keep your ax sharp! Here are some ways to get started today:

1. Read to expand your horizons.  I like to read biographies that tell me the stories of others' lives or books that show me parts of the world I've not yet seen.  They spark my imagination!
2. Study to deepen your knowledge.  If there's a more specific area you want to improve in, why not find three to five books on that single topic and dive in!  Increase your expertise to increase your income.
3. Meet new people.  You can learn from anybody and what better way than to put yourself in a position to see another point of view?
4.  Ask challenging questions.  It is said that your life expands or contracts in relation to the questions you ask.  Ask better questions and you'll get better answers.

A dull instrument might be able to get the job done, but it will take a whole lot longer.  That's exactly the way you might feel right now.  Maybe your edge has become worn down from much use?  No crime in that.  Be wise to slow down and get your edge back.

What are some other ways to sharpen your ax? Let me know!








Mark Anthony McCray helps people live on PURPOSE, achieve higher PERFORMANCE and experience true PROSPERITY. Be sure to subscribe to this blog so you don't miss a thing and forward this to a friend if you found it helpful. All material © Copyright, Mark Anthony McCray unless otherwise noted!

He can be reached in the following ways:

Mark@LiveBIGDieEmpty.com
Phone: 281-846-5720
Twitter: @LiveBIGDieEmpty
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/LiveBIGDieEmpty
LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/markanthonymccray/
Google+: https://plus.google.com/u/0/103149858138414160703/posts
YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/markanthonymccray
Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/markmccray/

Click HERE for information on Mark as a speaker or presenter and HERE to learn about coaching programs to help you realize your potential and live more prosperously!

7/19/13

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

"You miss one hundred percent of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretzky

I love that quote! It reminds me of my favorite scene from "Good Will Hunting" by far! Even your closest friends will get tired of hearing you talk about the shots you COULD make if you ever get in the game.



More important the quote and Ben Affleck are speaking directly to me where I am today.  I'm a big talker.  Always have been.  Also, I've got a few areas in which I've been talking BIG that I need to back up with some BIG action.  No more sitting on the sidelines talking about what I could do.  It's time to do!


I saw this quote this morning and it made me wonder to myself "Am I being a coward?  Am I really planning or am I hesitating out of fear?"  The Mark I know doesn't wait.  The Mark I've come to know acts and there is no way I can allow even an ounce of stagnation in my own life even as I coach and counsel people on how to create instant momentum on their own lives!

I am reminding myself even as I write this that there is no failure in God.  He causes all things to work together for my good.  There are too many people cheering me on for me to be satisfied sitting on the sidelines.  There is no benefit to the world in my playing small.  I play big!

Get in the game with me!









Mark Anthony McCray helps people live on PURPOSE, achieve higher PERFORMANCE and experience true PROSPERITY. Be sure to subscribe to this blog so you don't miss a thing and forward this to a friend if you found it helpful. All material © Copyright, Mark Anthony McCray unless otherwise noted!

He can be reached in the following ways:

Mark@LiveBIGDieEmpty.com
Phone: 281-846-5720
Twitter: @LiveBIGDieEmpty
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/LiveBIGDieEmpty
LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/markanthonymccray/
Google+: https://plus.google.com/u/0/103149858138414160703/posts
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Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/markmccray/

Click HERE for information on Mark as a speaker or presenter and HERE to learn about coaching programs to help you realize your potential and live more prosperously!

What If Nobody Cares About What I Have To Say?


This has to be every influencer's fear. You talk but nobody's listening. You've got wisdom to share but nobody cares.  You KNOW you've got the goods but can't even seem to give them away!!

The question for some of you is how do you break through this barrier in a way that makes a difference and DOESN'T make you feel like you're pouting, stomping around or crying out for attention?  It's very simple really: transparency.

(Maybe I should have added a drum roll for more dramatic impact?)

If you can inject more transparency into what you do and say, you will find people flocking to hear more from you.  They won't be able to stop themselves because people (all of us) are hungry for something real these days.  People are tired of the fluffy, superman-like stories from those who act like they came out of the womb running.  Enough!

Be real with people.  Then be raw.  Then get naked.  The more you uncover the more people will be attracted to your message.  A bunch of leaders who are courageous enough to be 100% authentic can truly change the world!

A couple more notes... are you looking for more guidance on building and expanding your business?  Get your copy of "From Idea to Ignition: How to Get Your Business off the Ground" today and also check out "The Sales Monster - 10 Ultimate No B.S. #MonsterTips to Help You Sell More and Earn More Money NOW!"  Both are packed full of information and insights you can take to the bank!  Available for download right to your Inbox after purchase with tons of bonus material!



Mark Anthony McCray helps people live on PURPOSE, achieve higher PERFORMANCE and experience true PROSPERITY.  Be sure to subscribe to this blog so you don't miss a thing and forward this to a friend if you found it helpful. All material © Copyright, Mark Anthony McCray unless otherwise noted!

He can be reached in the following ways:
Mark@LiveBIGDieEmpty.com
Phone: 281-846-5720
Twitter: @LiveBIGDieEmpty
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/LiveBIGDieEmpty
LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/markanthonymccray/
Google+: https://plus.google.com/u/0/103149858138414160703/posts
YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/markanthonymccray
Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/markmccray/

For more information on Mark as a speaker or presenter check out http://livebigdieempty.blogspot.com/p/about-mark_29.html


7/8/13

The Expert Excellence Webinar © - Position Yourself, Promote and Profit as an Expert


Start off by listening to this brief overview below!!!


I don't sell at these workshops... I share, I teach and I transform.  In an industry where most seminar leaders spend all day selling you something rather than training you with world-class content, I use a different approach.  I don't just tell you, I show you and then I take you there!  Starting immediately from the moment we begin. I give comprehensive concepts, frameworks and resource manuals that illustrate every concept I talk about - and even help you shift your mindset so you can take advantage of them!  You get a mind-blowing amount of value for your tuition.  Absolutely insane!

I am Mark Anthony McCray, Founder of Live BIG Die Empty and Expert Trainer.  I used to be right where you are.  I built my business largely by lots of trial and lots of effort.  Now after becoming successful as a speaker, writer, teacher and trainer and personal development coach, you can learn from all of my successes and failures in this one, power-packed session.  Even one good idea and the right time can change your life and pocketbook.  What about dozens?  What could they do for you?  For your life?  For your family?


The Expert Excellence Webinar © - Position Yourself, Promote and Profit as an Expert workshop is for you if:

  • You know you have a message to share but aren't sure how to get it out.
  • You have started on your book (or books) but don't know how to get published.
  • You are so frustrated that you want to give up and give in.
  • You want to learn how to get paid and profitable speaking engagements.
  • You want to rub shoulders with the best and the brightest.
  • You still haven't figured out how to truly breakthrough into the life you want as a paid expert and consultant.

Your order includes:

  • Downloadable video of the entire workshop
  • PDF of the presentation containing all the references, contacts, tips, checklists, resources and more discussed during the event
  • FREE BONUS: Downloadable audio training of my "7 Secrets to Getting Paid Speaking Engagements" program teaching you all the ins and outs of profiting from your growing brand

Here’s a small peek at how this event will transform your life and business.  You will learn everything you need to know to be successful in the expert field including:

* How to book and earn big money from speaking engagements
* How to improve your stage and professional presence
* How to build your business with more time to focus on top revenue-generating activities.
* How to attract ideal, high-paying clients quickly and with less stress.
* How to get past your own limiting beliefs so you can function on a higher level as a professional.
* How to leverage your time, get out of overwhelm and maintain balance without sacrificing family and personal time.
* How to organize your business and become profitable quickly
* How to establish your unique and unforgettable brand
* Using social media to supercharge your efforts

And much, much more! Don't miss this opportunity to make your living while making a difference!

No more guesswork! No more stressing trying to figure what direction to go and what to do next.  I will help you create an action plan that will help you SOAR!

My Personal "Live BIG Die Empty" Guarantee

I don't believe in get rich quick programs - only in hard work, adding value and serving others. Our programs are intended to help you share your message with a wider audience and to make a difference in the world while growing your business. As stipulated by law, in promoting this and all our programs we use illustrative numbers only and we can not and do not make results guarantees or give professional or legal advice. That's why we also put our disclaimers on our checkout pages. However, I am so confident in this training that I’m willing to guarantee it. If you don't gain the keys and strategies you need, just walk up to me at the end of the training and ask for your money back.  Point blank.  I can guarantee this because I ALWAYS have the exact OPPOSITE conversation after my trainings.  Those conversations usually begin with "Wow!

And much, much more! Don't miss this opportunity to walk in your purpose, make an impact on the world and live the life you've always wanted!

A couple more notes... are you looking for more guidance on building and expanding your business?  Get your copy of "From Idea to Ignition: How to Get Your Business off the Ground" today and also check out "The Sales Monster - 10 Ultimate No B.S. #MonsterTips to Help You Sell More and Earn More Money NOW!"  Both are packed full of information and insights you can take to the bank!  Available for download right to your Inbox after purchase with tons of bonus material!



Mark Anthony McCray helps people live on PURPOSE, achieve higher PERFORMANCE and experience true PROSPERITY.  Be sure to subscribe to this blog so you don't miss a thing and forward this to a friend if you found it helpful. All material © Copyright, Mark Anthony McCray unless otherwise noted!

He can be reached in the following ways:
Mark@LiveBIGDieEmpty.com
Phone: 281-846-5720
Twitter: @LiveBIGDieEmpty
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/LiveBIGDieEmpty
LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/markanthonymccray/
Google+: https://plus.google.com/u/0/103149858138414160703/posts
YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/markanthonymccray
Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/markmccray/

For more information on Mark as a speaker or presenter check out http://livebigdieempty.blogspot.com/p/about-mark_29.html


7/5/13

"I'm responsible for what I say, not what you hear!"


Let me let you into my head a little bit. When I start to see a statement become more and more popular, it makes me wonder "What would God say to that?" and I start searching it out. I saw this again this morning and it made me wonder: "If it truly matters that they get the message, and I've got the message they need to hear, do I then have any responsibilities towards that?"

"I'm responsible for what I say, not what you hear!"

Well... slow down a bit on that one. I disagree.  At least, I'm not 100% sure that's true.  Of course you are responsible for what people hear!  Part of effective communication is laboring to make sure people hear what you're saying. Good communicators don't put all the burden on the listeners. Good communicators work to bring the message in a way the hearer can hear it.

Paul speaks to this in a manner...

"Though I am free and belong to no one, I have made myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law. To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings." - 1 Corinthians 9:19-23

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I think the key is this: How much does it matter to you that they get the message? Or are you satisfied with simply getting your own words out? Maybe to satisfy your flesh?

We all listen with our own biases. I claim that. We filter everything through our own lenses. If you have a critical message filled with life-altering wisdom, you might need to work it some. It doesn't appear that you get to use the other person's inability to grasp what you're saying as a cop out. Paul seems to be teaching that you should learn the lens through which you're being heard and adapt accordingly.

If you truly care and if it truly matters, take some responsibility for what people hear, too, in addition to what you say. I know it's difficult but, after all, to whom much is given...









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7/3/13

3 Things He's Looking for from Her


Once a man is attracted to you, I believe he begins to filter every conversation, observation and interaction with you through three key questions:


  1. Does she NEED me? 
  2. Can I make her happy? 
  3. Could I trust her with EVERYTHING I am? 

Some say men don't commit these days but that's obviously not true. Men and women still get married.  Good men and women get married. Some marry and some don't and I believe I've figured out how you can discern which way a person is headed.  You can even look in the mirror and see where you are in these.

The crux of the matter is good men marry good women - women who make them feel needed (respected and appreciated), whom they feel that they can make happy (she expresses gratitude often and enthusiastically) and whom he feels he can trust (able to be naked and not ashamed).

I'm being repetitive with this post.  Everyone has needs.  That's natural.  Having needs isn't being needy.

I've met many women who give off each of these positive vibes individually and some who give off all three.  I've met women who give off none of these vibes.  Instead, some women communicate to the world things such as "I don't need anyone", "I will never be satisfied" and "I can't be trusted."   For example, it has been said that a man will not stay with a woman whom he can't make happy.  It seems to apply even if they're already married.

Like I've said before, that's why I created this program!  It is alright to need.  It is alright to trust.  You control your own happiness.

A question for the reader... WHAT IS SHE LOOKING FOR FROM HIM?

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