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7/23/13

How The Best Make It Look Easy


"If I had eight hours to chop down a tree, I'd spend six hours sharpening my ax." - Abraham Lincoln, Kind of a Memorable Guy

People say they best make it look easy. That's true! But that's because they're often up late getting sharper while others sleep. It's hard work making things look easy!  I'm working on myself this week by studying Christian Coaching by Gary R. Collins, PhD and Start Where You Are by Chris Gardner of The Pursuit of Happyness fame.  Both in terms of moving parts of my vision forward and in helping others do the same, I've grown a lot already.  Also, reading excites me.  It focuses me.  It motivates me to achieve more and whenever I'm in the middle of a good book I wonder why I don't read more! (I read a lot.)


For you, remember to keep your ax sharp! Here are some ways to get started today:

1. Read to expand your horizons.  I like to read biographies that tell me the stories of others' lives or books that show me parts of the world I've not yet seen.  They spark my imagination!
2. Study to deepen your knowledge.  If there's a more specific area you want to improve in, why not find three to five books on that single topic and dive in!  Increase your expertise to increase your income.
3. Meet new people.  You can learn from anybody and what better way than to put yourself in a position to see another point of view?
4.  Ask challenging questions.  It is said that your life expands or contracts in relation to the questions you ask.  Ask better questions and you'll get better answers.

A dull instrument might be able to get the job done, but it will take a whole lot longer.  That's exactly the way you might feel right now.  Maybe your edge has become worn down from much use?  No crime in that.  Be wise to slow down and get your edge back.

What are some other ways to sharpen your ax? Let me know!








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7/19/13

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

"You miss one hundred percent of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretzky

I love that quote! It reminds me of my favorite scene from "Good Will Hunting" by far! Even your closest friends will get tired of hearing you talk about the shots you COULD make if you ever get in the game.



More important the quote and Ben Affleck are speaking directly to me where I am today.  I'm a big talker.  Always have been.  Also, I've got a few areas in which I've been talking BIG that I need to back up with some BIG action.  No more sitting on the sidelines talking about what I could do.  It's time to do!


I saw this quote this morning and it made me wonder to myself "Am I being a coward?  Am I really planning or am I hesitating out of fear?"  The Mark I know doesn't wait.  The Mark I've come to know acts and there is no way I can allow even an ounce of stagnation in my own life even as I coach and counsel people on how to create instant momentum on their own lives!

I am reminding myself even as I write this that there is no failure in God.  He causes all things to work together for my good.  There are too many people cheering me on for me to be satisfied sitting on the sidelines.  There is no benefit to the world in my playing small.  I play big!

Get in the game with me!









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What If Nobody Cares About What I Have To Say?


This has to be every influencer's fear. You talk but nobody's listening. You've got wisdom to share but nobody cares.  You KNOW you've got the goods but can't even seem to give them away!!

The question for some of you is how do you break through this barrier in a way that makes a difference and DOESN'T make you feel like you're pouting, stomping around or crying out for attention?  It's very simple really: transparency.

(Maybe I should have added a drum roll for more dramatic impact?)

If you can inject more transparency into what you do and say, you will find people flocking to hear more from you.  They won't be able to stop themselves because people (all of us) are hungry for something real these days.  People are tired of the fluffy, superman-like stories from those who act like they came out of the womb running.  Enough!

Be real with people.  Then be raw.  Then get naked.  The more you uncover the more people will be attracted to your message.  A bunch of leaders who are courageous enough to be 100% authentic can truly change the world!

A couple more notes... are you looking for more guidance on building and expanding your business?  Get your copy of "From Idea to Ignition: How to Get Your Business off the Ground" today and also check out "The Sales Monster - 10 Ultimate No B.S. #MonsterTips to Help You Sell More and Earn More Money NOW!"  Both are packed full of information and insights you can take to the bank!  Available for download right to your Inbox after purchase with tons of bonus material!



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7/8/13

The Expert Excellence Webinar © - Position Yourself, Promote and Profit as an Expert


Start off by listening to this brief overview below!!!


I don't sell at these workshops... I share, I teach and I transform.  In an industry where most seminar leaders spend all day selling you something rather than training you with world-class content, I use a different approach.  I don't just tell you, I show you and then I take you there!  Starting immediately from the moment we begin. I give comprehensive concepts, frameworks and resource manuals that illustrate every concept I talk about - and even help you shift your mindset so you can take advantage of them!  You get a mind-blowing amount of value for your tuition.  Absolutely insane!

I am Mark Anthony McCray, Founder of Live BIG Die Empty and Expert Trainer.  I used to be right where you are.  I built my business largely by lots of trial and lots of effort.  Now after becoming successful as a speaker, writer, teacher and trainer and personal development coach, you can learn from all of my successes and failures in this one, power-packed session.  Even one good idea and the right time can change your life and pocketbook.  What about dozens?  What could they do for you?  For your life?  For your family?


The Expert Excellence Webinar © - Position Yourself, Promote and Profit as an Expert workshop is for you if:

  • You know you have a message to share but aren't sure how to get it out.
  • You have started on your book (or books) but don't know how to get published.
  • You are so frustrated that you want to give up and give in.
  • You want to learn how to get paid and profitable speaking engagements.
  • You want to rub shoulders with the best and the brightest.
  • You still haven't figured out how to truly breakthrough into the life you want as a paid expert and consultant.

Your order includes:

  • Downloadable video of the entire workshop
  • PDF of the presentation containing all the references, contacts, tips, checklists, resources and more discussed during the event
  • FREE BONUS: Downloadable audio training of my "7 Secrets to Getting Paid Speaking Engagements" program teaching you all the ins and outs of profiting from your growing brand

Here’s a small peek at how this event will transform your life and business.  You will learn everything you need to know to be successful in the expert field including:

* How to book and earn big money from speaking engagements
* How to improve your stage and professional presence
* How to build your business with more time to focus on top revenue-generating activities.
* How to attract ideal, high-paying clients quickly and with less stress.
* How to get past your own limiting beliefs so you can function on a higher level as a professional.
* How to leverage your time, get out of overwhelm and maintain balance without sacrificing family and personal time.
* How to organize your business and become profitable quickly
* How to establish your unique and unforgettable brand
* Using social media to supercharge your efforts

And much, much more! Don't miss this opportunity to make your living while making a difference!

No more guesswork! No more stressing trying to figure what direction to go and what to do next.  I will help you create an action plan that will help you SOAR!

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I don't believe in get rich quick programs - only in hard work, adding value and serving others. Our programs are intended to help you share your message with a wider audience and to make a difference in the world while growing your business. As stipulated by law, in promoting this and all our programs we use illustrative numbers only and we can not and do not make results guarantees or give professional or legal advice. That's why we also put our disclaimers on our checkout pages. However, I am so confident in this training that I’m willing to guarantee it. If you don't gain the keys and strategies you need, just walk up to me at the end of the training and ask for your money back.  Point blank.  I can guarantee this because I ALWAYS have the exact OPPOSITE conversation after my trainings.  Those conversations usually begin with "Wow!

And much, much more! Don't miss this opportunity to walk in your purpose, make an impact on the world and live the life you've always wanted!

A couple more notes... are you looking for more guidance on building and expanding your business?  Get your copy of "From Idea to Ignition: How to Get Your Business off the Ground" today and also check out "The Sales Monster - 10 Ultimate No B.S. #MonsterTips to Help You Sell More and Earn More Money NOW!"  Both are packed full of information and insights you can take to the bank!  Available for download right to your Inbox after purchase with tons of bonus material!



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7/5/13

"I'm responsible for what I say, not what you hear!"


Let me let you into my head a little bit. When I start to see a statement become more and more popular, it makes me wonder "What would God say to that?" and I start searching it out. I saw this again this morning and it made me wonder: "If it truly matters that they get the message, and I've got the message they need to hear, do I then have any responsibilities towards that?"

"I'm responsible for what I say, not what you hear!"

Well... slow down a bit on that one. I disagree.  At least, I'm not 100% sure that's true.  Of course you are responsible for what people hear!  Part of effective communication is laboring to make sure people hear what you're saying. Good communicators don't put all the burden on the listeners. Good communicators work to bring the message in a way the hearer can hear it.

Paul speaks to this in a manner...

"Though I am free and belong to no one, I have made myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law. To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings." - 1 Corinthians 9:19-23

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I think the key is this: How much does it matter to you that they get the message? Or are you satisfied with simply getting your own words out? Maybe to satisfy your flesh?

We all listen with our own biases. I claim that. We filter everything through our own lenses. If you have a critical message filled with life-altering wisdom, you might need to work it some. It doesn't appear that you get to use the other person's inability to grasp what you're saying as a cop out. Paul seems to be teaching that you should learn the lens through which you're being heard and adapt accordingly.

If you truly care and if it truly matters, take some responsibility for what people hear, too, in addition to what you say. I know it's difficult but, after all, to whom much is given...









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7/3/13

3 Things He's Looking for from Her


Once a man is attracted to you, I believe he begins to filter every conversation, observation and interaction with you through three key questions:


  1. Does she NEED me? 
  2. Can I make her happy? 
  3. Could I trust her with EVERYTHING I am? 

Some say men don't commit these days but that's obviously not true. Men and women still get married.  Good men and women get married. Some marry and some don't and I believe I've figured out how you can discern which way a person is headed.  You can even look in the mirror and see where you are in these.

The crux of the matter is good men marry good women - women who make them feel needed (respected and appreciated), whom they feel that they can make happy (she expresses gratitude often and enthusiastically) and whom he feels he can trust (able to be naked and not ashamed).

I'm being repetitive with this post.  Everyone has needs.  That's natural.  Having needs isn't being needy.

I've met many women who give off each of these positive vibes individually and some who give off all three.  I've met women who give off none of these vibes.  Instead, some women communicate to the world things such as "I don't need anyone", "I will never be satisfied" and "I can't be trusted."   For example, it has been said that a man will not stay with a woman whom he can't make happy.  It seems to apply even if they're already married.

Like I've said before, that's why I created this program!  It is alright to need.  It is alright to trust.  You control your own happiness.

A question for the reader... WHAT IS SHE LOOKING FOR FROM HIM?

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7/2/13

What Can You Give? What Can You Add?


If you can't think of ten ways you aren't making your partner happy, you're missing it and you're selfish.  Period!  

Short blog today.  I love and respect all of my readers here so this just a Public Service Announcement.  A reminder, if you will.  I've got no complaints today.  I'd simply like to encourage you not to look at a relationship for only how you can be made happy, but how you can contribute to a happy environment.  Stop putting all that pressure on other people to manage your emotions for you. It isn't Biblical.

Instead of thinking (as is natural) "How can she make me happy?" pray about what you can add to her life.  As a wise man once said, if you can't think of ten ways you aren't making your wife happy, you're missing it and you're selfish.

Like I said.  A reminder...  That's why I created this program!


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