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3/30/13

Why This Abstinence Thing Is Starting to Bug Me.

I am about to make an open confession to which many of you will immediately think "That doesn't sound like Mark...or maybe it does? I'm confused."

I am not a huge fan of Christians celebrating years of abstinence. I don't have a magic calculation for this, but I think after a certain amount of time (years? decades?) maybe you're testifying to something negative instead of something positive - you have trouble sustaining healthy relationships that lead to long-term partnerships and marriage.

If you are single (and especially if you are a Believing Christian), you should not be having sex.  Clearly there are those who have a gift of staying single and dedicating themselves to the Lord's work. Clearly these people are in the minority by gifting. At least I think so. I think the majority of the perpetually single that I'm coming across these days are hard to sustain relationships with and when those efforts blow up, they allow them the excuse that they're living for God.

Take it for what it's worth. I am not saying go get a copy of the Kama Sutra and a jumbo pack of condoms and make it happen. I'm saying focus on getting healed and into healthy relationships. This seems better and healthier to me than spending your most fruitful years trying to keep it in your pants.


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3/29/13

From Idea to Ignition: How to (Finally) Get Your Business off the Ground!


If you missed From Idea to Ignition, you missed a treat! Here's what one attendee said...

"I must say, if you have ever thought of starting your own business and are looking for very engaging, convenient, detailed information on how to do so from an Entrepreneur who is RELATABLE and REAL...you've got to join this. Mark Anthony McCray gave an amazing presentation and admittedly, this is maybe the first time I have felt compelled to repeat a webinar. I was blown away by the organization, professionalism and I'm serious... I had some real epiphanies about my biz." - N. Wade

"Thank you for the seminar. It was rich with information. It was advanced! I know the business owners loved it!! Glad there was a replay and items to download. I am going to listen to it again. Thank you for sharing your wealth of knowledge!!" - A. Brundidge

So...how do you know a good business idea when you see it? It's really all about studying the business model. Most successful businesses have more in common than they have different and knowing the commonalities can save you a lot of headaches and make you a lot of money. Therefore, whether it's waste disposal or concrete mixing or baking, focus on building your business based on a proven model - it's structure - and you'll increase your chances of success.

A business model is the way that costs and potential revenues interact. Put another way, a model is the structure that a particular business will use to get raw materials, add value, and sell the finished product to the market. Therefore, there are three main components to a business model:

(1) The markets and customers
(2) The services and products to be offered
(3) The distribution method

Does a market exist? After all, you will need customers, right? For example, let’s say that you are the world’s foremost expert on asbestos. Asbestos is your life and you think about it all the time. Then, let’s say that you have developed a way to sell asbestos products via the Internet and have representatives local to the customer deliver them. Do you think that you will have an adequate market to allow you to reach your business revenue goals? Probably not. Asbestos sales aren’t exactly peaking right now.

I acknowledge that the example sounds silly. However, I can assure you that many people commit similar errors everyday. You must be fairly certain through observation or study that a market exists for your product. Furthermore, the market must be large enough to maintain your business. Finally, people should find it easy to understand the benefit that they receive from buying your service. People spend money to solve their problems. Are there a lot of people with the problem that you want to solve? Are they willing to pay you what you are asking to do so?

This workshop is for you if:

You want a simple approach to business planning...
You want a simple approach to developing your launch budget...
You want to understand the twelve winning qualities of a successful launch...

I'm always candid, always helpful and always focused on teaching YOU instead of selling stuff. Join me by getting your copy today here!  This is a $297 value that I'm offering for a crazy low price of $97for a limited time because I want this to be the year you take control of your future and GET YOUR BUSINESS OFF THE GROUND!









Here's what I've included for you:


  • The One Page Business Planning Guide (PDF)
  • Business Start-up Expenses Form (PDF)
  • Interview with Mark Anthony McCray on The 10 Commandments of Marketing (MP3)
  • Business Start-up Expense Analysis (Excel Worksheet)
  • From Idea to Ignition Live Webinar (Video File)
  • From Idea to Ignition Live Webinar (Audio-only File MP3)
  • From Idea to Ignition Presentation File (PDF)
  • Bonus: A Business Development System That Will Not Fail (PDF)
  • Bonus: Financial Worksheets for Business Plans (Excel Worksheet)
  • Bonus: 9 Devastating Financing Mistakes Business Owners Make and How to Avoid Them (PDF)
  • Bonus/Complimentary Copy: The Sales Monster: 10 Ultimate No B.S. MonsterTips to Help You Sell More and Earn More Money Now (PDF)


You get the idea. I shared with you lots of information to help you answer the questions...

1 - How to quickly and easily draft a business plan?
2 - How to position and market your business?
3 - What are the fundamental elements of a winning business model?
4 - How do you build your budget?

Get your copy today here for a ridiculous low price of $97 for a short time only!  I can't keep this information priced so low.  You won't be able to find this kind of training anywhere else... video and audio, templates, sales and business development guides.  I'm giving you what you've been looking for and more!











This is stuff you can't afford to miss.

To your prosperity!









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3/27/13

How to Prosper (The Short Version)



I don't get credit for this wisdom. I am but a vessel.  The great John Cruise gets credit for sharing this with me as what he learned from his best mentor and coach.  Thank you, Mr. Cruise.  

First, a definition: Prosperity is "the condition of being successful or thrivingaccording to Miriam-Webster.  Focus on that last word "thriving."  It isn't just about money.  You can be rich and not prosperous though I'd venture to say it's very difficult to feel prosperous if your financial circumstances aren't at least improving.

Second, regarding prosperity: Wanting to prosper isn't evil or unbiblical.  In fact, true prosperity is a great thing for a Believer to aspire.  I'm not a prosperity teacher by any means, but I don't believe one should expect only a life of adversity either.  Adversity comes to all our lives, but victories should not be absent.

In any regard, I want you to do well and increase.  If you want that for yourself, keep reading.  Here are the four keys to prosperity as shared with me:

Profit: Measure every action and thought according to whether it produces a profit.

Protection: Protect what you've earned or there was no point in earning it.

Pride: Take a measure of pride in everything to which you put your hand.

Pleasure: Play last.  Play once you've taken care of profit, protection and pride.

The problem with most people is they pursue these in the opposite direction and, therefore, out of order.  They prioritize pleasure over profit or even pride.  They make pleasure a priority for their money, time and energy leaving not much left to make their lives more profitable.  Profit first.  Not only, but first.  This becomes a life worth living.

To your prosperity!  Want more lessons?  Check this out!









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The 7 Functions of a Coach


I wrote yesterday on how getting a coach can improve your life and even double your income.  This article is more about clarifying what a good coach does and doesn't do.  Here are some thoughts:


  1. Impart skills and knowledge 
  2. Impart confidence and understanding in the use of those skills 
  3. Motivate people so as to bring out the best in them - usually encouraging them beyond what they thought they were capable of doing
  4. Model the importance of learning the basics of a skill 
  5. Point the protege to other appropriate resources and links them with other professionals. 
  6. Observe the protege in action 
  7. Evaluate the protege's experience and gives feedback towards further development.

Remember, if someone is challenged to deal with past issues and hurts, they probably need a counselor instead of a coach.  Part of being a successful coach is being a person of integrity and directing people to where they can get help and being honest about when that person isn't you.

To your success!









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3/26/13

Talk So He'll Hear You


My friend, Belinda Oliver, said "Sis, men communicate differently than we do. Do you know how to effectively communicate with that man? Can he be comfortable in YOUR presence? Can he TRUST you or do you have an AGENDA?" and it got me to thinking.

I had written "8 Keys to Talking to Men" before but felt like I could write a quick update.  Some women still feel like they aren't being heard.  I came bearing gifts... of wisdom.  Here are some quick ways to talk so your guy will hear you... really quick:

Step 1: Get to the point QUICK AND FIRST! Fill in the details after you made your point. If he doesn't know where the talk is going, he will zone out.

Step 2: Don't think everything has to be covered at one time. It doesn't. Give it to him in little chunks.

Step 3: Don't store it all up and explode on him! He won't even remember what he "did" a month ago.

Step 4: If you want him to talk, listen. Allow some silence and he will fill it. If you never stop talking, he will never start.

Does this help?  Try these out and let me know how they work for you!  I want you to be heard.  Really.



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[VIDEO] Go #BIG or Go the Heck Home! (The Power of Passion and Enthusiasm)



For what do you burn?  Would your friends and family say you're truly on fire about anything? I hope so because, from my point of view, if you're going to show up, show up with enthusiasm. Otherwise - and I mean this will all my heart - you might as well stay home!  Check out my latest Google Hangout with Don Purdum and you can listen to me rant about this.

I mean what I said.  If you aren't going to be fired up about your own purpose, calling and mission, why should anyone else be?  Struggling to answer?  The old saying from John Wesley is true: "Set yourself on fire with passion and people will come for miles to watch you burn." 

Be a man or woman on fire.









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3 Ways Cosmopolitan Magazine Is Creating Divorce.




Maybe I'm being a hater.  I'm sure I am.  But I was send an article the other week called "What Makes Men Fall in Love" and was asked my thoughts on it.  I guess I'm predictable and people know my triggers because the first thing I did was an image search on "Cosmopolitan Magazine Covers" and this is what I got back. 


Am I that old and out of touch?  I am shocked at how often "sex" is the highlight of the issue considering their target market - mostly young, single women in their late teens and early twenties.  That's the first way Cosmo is ruining marriage: It's got people thinking good sex = healthy relationship.  Ummm...

But the second way Cosmo is ruining relationships and creating (future) divorces is by teaching gamesmanship as a part of the dating process.  They say to pick fights as a way to show him you're not a pushover.  Well, I'm not so sure about that.  I think two people in relationship will have enough organic disagreements over time and you don't need to manufacture any.   Don't pick fights to show you're strong.  Just express your own opinions.  You'll get enough disagreements in time. I'm sure of it!  They also say you should blow him off from time to time.  Since when has ignoring someone been a sign that you care?  Go ahead and try that if you want to!

Finally, here's the deal.  You can't make someone fall in love with you.  Love is a choice.  It's a decision to commit to you.  The bottom line is a man (just like a woman) wants to be in a relationship with a person of character.  Develop character from the inside.  If you need help, grab a Bible.  Go to the Proverbs.  You'll get all the advice you need right there.

Here's where I will give this article credit.  I think they are right about most of the male triggers to attachment.  I just don't think you have to try a pull a guy's strings to get him there.  You do that and eventually people figure you out and resent you for it.

Then you're looking for the article about what to do when he leaves you.

Your thoughts?








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Can a Life Coach Double Your Income?



A good friend of mine, Betty-Anne Marie White, tagged me in/on/with (?) this article on my Facebook page. Deborah Gaines says hiring a coach doubled her income and I believe her.  I believe her because it was having a coach that totally changed my life in the early part of my career.  I give tons and tons of credit to a man named Duncan Butler who taught me more than I ever thought I'd know about business and entrepreneurship.

Duncan taught me something that I know I'll never forget: All of the most successful people (in every field) have coaches.  In fact, most hyper-successful people have more than one coach.  Think about someone like Tiger Woods.  He has a swing coach, someone to help him with his short game, someone to help him with health and fitness and probably someone to help him with his overall competitive mentality.  

All the most successful people have coaches.  I don't think you can find an exception to this rule - they just might not admit it because they want you to think they've stood alone the whole way.  Bull spit!  Don't believe that self-made garbage.  Anyone who does anything great, gets help.  I know I have.  You should get help, too.  Reaching beyond yourself for insight, tools, resources and even encouragement could be the best thing you ever do.

At least think about it.  If you've got an area in which you know you need to grow, get a coach.  Where do you need help?  Post your comments below!









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3/13/13

Pride & Singleness


A lot of you are not single because you can't find anyone, but because you're too proud. You meet people, you date and you stay together for a while until... until... until they give you some feedback you don't like. That's when you decide they aren't for you. You two just aren't a match.

Being in a long-term relationship with anyone requires you to change - a lot - but the conventional wisdom these days is everybody should just take you the way you are. Right? God forbid you should have to mature, be selfless, consider other people, apologize when you're wrong or adjust your priorities!

Relationships require you to walk in a lot of humility and accommodation. Perhaps it is your unwillingness to bend that keeps you alone? Despite what all the Facebook graphics are telling you, rigidity is not a good thing.

Basically, if you don't have what you want in your life right now and find that you're never able to build anything that lasts, you probably need to change.  Yes.  YOU need to change.

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3/4/13

Insecurities



Here's the video from one of our longest Hangouts so far!  Don and I really got open about insecurities, criticisms and other things that hinder you from having healthy, whole and happy relationships.  Here's the VIDEO Check it out. Let me know what you think!

Post your comments below!








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Admit it. You still believe in fairy tales.



Do you know why fairy tales are called fairy tales?  They are called fairy tales because they almost all involve fairies (duh!) or some other kind of magical being.  In each one of them, this magical creature sees the woeful plight of the hero or heroine and swoops in to wave a wand, cast a spell or brew a potion that saves the day.  In a flash of light, all is well and everyone lives happily ever after.

Most people live like they have a fairy god mother hovering over them waiting to grant their heart's deepest desire with three wishes - especially when it comes to dating and marriage.  I'm making up a new term right here, right now. From here forward I'm calling most modern Christian dating the "Someday My Prince Will Come" Method of dating. It's the "I will sit here in my tower and wait until something happens" kind of attitude.  It doesn't work that way in the real world.  The Lord has set up a system that relies upon sowing and reaping.  It applies to everything.

The vast majority of women who confide in me that they're tired of being single also admit that they never go out on dates (even when asked), never approach or accept approaches from men and rarely go anywhere except work and church.  A friend posted on my Facebook page, "I have been to many women and singles retreats and the topic of staying pure aka saving sex for marriage and waiting is always talked about and encouraged. However, the discussion of dating has not been discussed or encouraged. That's why I believe most women are stuck at home, work and church because they are waiting for their future husband to sweep them off their feet."

I agree with her. One comment I hear often is "A man will have to go through God to get to me." and it drives me CRAZY!!! How exactly is a man supposed to do that? Do you give him a basic theology quiz when he asks you out? Do you pray a couple of days before responding to his asking you to meet him for coffee? It makes no sense to me! He didn't ask you to marry him. He asked you to go to TGI Fridays! 

Overall, I am at an age now where a lot of my female friends thought "Someday my prince will come" while many others took chances to get to know people. Now the ones who put off so many opportunities are regretting it. Some admit. Some don't admit. But most acknowledge that there's a good reason those stories of magical rescue are called fairy tales. It's because they happen about as often as you've seen a fairy... which is to say probably never.

Disney has screwed you up.  They make good movies, but Disney is not a great relationship counselor.

Go out on a doggone date!

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3/3/13

Good People In Your Corner


Everybody fights better with good people in their corner.  People who are willing to wipe the sweat out of your eyes, bandage up your cuts, encourage you and send you back into the fight.  You need those people if you ever attempt to do anything at all with your life.  I'm not even talking yet about living a life of significance.  I'm talking about just doing anything at all.  Life is tough.  Don't try to go it alone.

I know people a little bit.  Most of you reading this are carrying burdens that are really troubling you.  Yet not enough of the right people know what your challenges are.  Therefore, they can't help you.  Your silence is keeping you in a worse situation than you need to be in.

I've learned this the good way and the bad way.  I have some great people in my corner now, but that hasn't always been the case because I WOULD NOT LET PEOPLE SEE THE REAL ME.  They were always good people, but shutting them out didn't allow them to know how to pray, how to help, how to encourage.

You were not designed to live in isolation.  "A brother is born for adversity" a wise man once said.  That means that you have people around you just because the Lord knew you were going to need someone one day.  We are there for each other to lean on.  Don't be so proud as to not ask for help or accept it when it's offered.  You might be cutting off someone else's blessing and destroying opportunities to develop real intimacy.

That's my only point to this blog today.  Let people know what's going on with you.  Let them help you.

Mark










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