Is He a Superman or a Joker?

Is he a Superman or a Joker? Does it matter? Most people begin to respond to what they are called repeatedly. If you want him to be your Superman, if you treat him that way, he'll become more of that - even if he isn't already.

"Men don't marry a woman because of how she looks - he marries her because of how he feels when he is around her..." ~Dr. Mike Murdock

This quote touched off quite a discussion between some friends of mine recently - both men and women. The men felt like it was 100% true and the women felt like it was 100% hogwash (for the most part)! Talk about a difference of opinion! I didn't feel like it was 100% true, however. I answered that it was 1000000% true. I don't even know if there is a such thing as a million percent, but if there is, put me down for that answer.

When a man chooses to move past casual dating and make a commitment, it's always about how he feels when he is around that woman. If you're a man, you know I'm right. If you're a woman, you might be feeling conflicted right now. You've heard about how men are visual and think we can be mesmerized by a woman's beauty like some kind of magic spell. Not likely. I've never, ever, ever, ever seen a man choose to be with one woman over another because of her looks. Not ever.

A woman who knows how to make a man feel like a king will always have the top place in a good man's life. She will always be the apple of his eye even over another woman who might be sexy, rich, well-educated or anything else if the sexy, rich, well-educated woman either doesn't know how to treat men or he just doesn't feel like the king of the world when he's with her.

Because that's what the woman whom a man chooses does: She makes him feel like he can do absolutely anything, like he can be anything, like anything is possible. And that's what every man wants - to feel like Superman. If a woman can do that, men will fight for her, protect her, beg her to be around him and generally risk everything he is, everything he has and everything he can be to have her in his life. This is especially true when so many people - male and female - treat him like a Joker.

Most important for you, it is possible to tell the difference between Supermen and Jokers.  That's why I created this program!

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